Grow Up and Get Out

Or rather, simply grow up and move on.

Listen, too many guys (and girls honestly) need to grow up these days. You've either got things too easy, or you hang on to hatred and bitterness that you should let go of, or you don't open your eyes to the world around you.

I don't care WHAT you've been through in the past. If you don't move past THESE conditions, you will NEVER grow up and be an adult or live the full life you CAN and should.

As far as PUA goes, you'll never find a good, quality girl at this rate. As far as life goes, you'll never find that quality, happy life that you truly want. Not unless you move past these issues.

"You don't know me." "You don't know my life." "You have no idea what I've been through." "You haven't seen the hell I've seen." "You don't have the family I've got." "You didn't have the upbringing I had." "You didn't go to the schools I went to." "You haven't been in the horrendous places I've been." "You haven't had to sacrifice the way I have." "You haven't had the setbacks I've had." "You haven't had your life on the line, with death being in front of your face."

You know what? Every single one of these are excuses. I hear them. And, you know something else? I'VE LIVED THEM. Yeah, you have no idea what kind of life I'VE lived either. So, you're excuses, your attitudes, your bitchiness, your childish ways don't fly with me. In fact, I'VE personally been through a couple of experiences that weren't even listed in those excuses above.

So, whatever your crutch is, get over it. You will never, and I repeat, never grow up as long as you hold onto that crutch. Period. End of discussion.

But, since we're still here . . . let me add something to this. Something meaningful. Something thought provoking. Are you ready for this?

It's never as good as it looks, or as bad as it seems.

Seriously.

Can you grasp the full meaning of this? In other words, if you've been on your death bed, barely escaping with your life . . . "it's never as good as it looks or as bad as it seems". It's just an experience that you've had that CAN help you to be a BETTER person, IF you learn from it.

The flip side. If you're a multi-billionaire . . . "it's never as good as it looks or as bad as it seems". Granted, being that wealthy has it's perks. But, it's not all peaches and cream either. There ARE definite downsides. It's, again, something you can learn from and grow with.

So screw your excuses, grow up, and learn from your experiences. Be a BETTER person because of what you've been through. Not a bitter one. Not a hermit. Not an angry, irritable, wanna fight everyone person. Not a 13 year old in a 45 year old body.

Grow up. Live life. Enjoy life to it's fullest. LIFE isn't stopping you from doing that . . . YOU are stopping you from doing that.